So, I have a color-changing thumb. It's true. Some years it can be black as black can be... [Exhibit A]
And other years I get surprised when I find out that there is some green in my thumb afterall... [Exhibit B]
With
the constant change in my thumb's abilities - and never knowing what
will happen from year to year - I try to still take care of my flowerbed
[you know, to continue to at least TRY to figure out how to care for
plants], but I tend to leave the vegetable gardening up to my hubby.
However, the previous two summers he was working out of town A LOT and I
had to tend to the garden during the weeks as he was only home on
weekends. Let's just say that his garden didn't fare as well as usual in
those past two summers...
But regardless of my green
or not-so-green thumb, I'm just not a gardener at heart. In fact, I
always say that if my husband wouldn't plant a garden, we just wouldn't
have one. I know we'd be missing out on all of the home-grown yumminess
that comes from a garden...but I just wouldn't be motivated to do it
myself. Growing up my parents always had beautiful gardens and spent a
lot of time and energy into making them such, I guess I just didn't
inherit the love for it.
So what about your kids? Do they enjoy gardening?
you might be wondering. Well...sometimes they do and sometimes they
don't. They like to water my flowers from time-to-time [but only when it
suits them] and I think they've planted a few seeds here and there
[until they get bored and would rather jump on the trampoline or run
through the sprinkler]. And they sure do enjoy picking off the plants in
the veggie garden - snap peas, cherry tomatoes, raspberries, etc. But
they don't really spend a lot [or any] time actually nurturing or caring
for it. I think I'd like that to change. I would love for them to
regularly spend time in the garden and to do the whole process too, from
start to finish and everything in between.
That would
include marking off rows, planting, watering, weeding and harvesting.
It would be great to have gardening turn into a family affair instead of
just leaving it for Dad to take care of [and me to try to hold things
together if/when he's away]. It could turn into one of their summertime
chores perhaps, where they each have to spend a certain amount of time
in the garden per week doing whatever is needed to help keep it in good
shape.
I was looking online the other day and came across a good article about gardening [click
here to check it out]. I discovered it had some pretty helpful tips. Now, the article is specifically tips for gardening with
kids -
ahem
- but I think some of these tips could be pretty useful for an adult
like me too, who has proved to be rather inept at gardening. I encourage
you to read the entire post, but here are the tips, followed by my own
comments on them.
1. Start small and keep it simple.
Brilliant advice! If we want our children to help out with something,
giving them responsibility [even partial responsibility] of a huge
garden might be just too overwhelming for them. Our garden is already
planted this year [likely yours all are too] but for next year I might
consider asking hubby to corner off a section of the garden just for me
and my girls to take care of. That way I won't risk screwing up ALL of
our home-grown produce, but we'll still get to try to care for and grow
something on our own.
2. Use a kid-friendly layout.
This sort of fits into the "keep it simple" category in my opinion.
Making sure there is enough space between rows is one thing to keep in
mind when you know kids will be working in the garden, so you can walk
without damaging any plants.
3. Give kids tools of their own.
This one is great for both kids and me! Getting kid-sized garden tools
and their own properly-fitting gardening gloves is a great way to get
them excited about working in the garden. And for me? A pair of pretty
pink gardening gloves would get me more interested in helping out too!
4. Choose plants that grow easily.
Research which plants are easier to grow and nurture and choose those
ones to plant with your child. You certainly can do other ones as well,
but if you section off a part of the garden for your child to care for
[or your wife...hee hee], make sure to pick ones that will be more
likely to fare well under their supervision. This will give them a sense
of pride and accomplishment - rather than if they destroy a plant that
they worked hard for but was just too difficult for a beginner.
5. Decorate the garden.
How much more fun would it be for a child to work in a garden that was
decorated rather than just a boring ol' patch of dirt with green plants?
It's definitely more enticing if there are some bright colors in the
mix. You can find all sorts of things to stick into the dirt to improve
the appearance - like bright, colorful butterflies and ladybugs on
sticks, or like the writer of the post I'm getting these tips from
suggested, making a banner to welcome all of the plants! I've even heard
of people using an old toilet as decoration - filling it with dirt and
planting flowers in it! Use your imagination and get your kids involved
with how you choose to decorate.
Growing
your own fresh produce is a wonderful way to be green and economical AND
to take on a family project that you can all work on together. Besides,
it's a 'chore' that can be done outdoors! And with so many other chores
keeping us cooped up inside, on a beautiful summer day what better
excuse to ditch the indoor chores and get your feet dirty in the garden
instead?
And I think it's so important to get your kids
involved in everything you do around the house and yard. This way not
only are you teaching them skills - and life lessons about
responsibility - but you are spending quality time with them in the
process! This is a win-win situation for everybody!
So
grab those gardening gloves, hook up the water hose and get those feet
muddy! But before you do...tell me if you have a garden and what you
have planted! Our garden this year has snap peas, onions, potatoes,
tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers, carrots and lettuce!
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My name is Andrea (Andi) and I have the privilege of working part-time alongside Pam to help her with "a little of this and a little of that" as she strives to bring superb customer service to all of you through her Tiny TreeHugger business.
I am a 33-year-old mostly stay-at-home mother of two girls (aged 6 and 8) and have been happily married for almost 11 years. I am a Pepsi-loving, game-playing, guitar-learning, Nutella-craving girl [among many other things that make me ME]. I cloth-diapered my girls when they were babies and enjoyed the cost savings as well as the feeling of helping the environment - one cloth diaper at a time.
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